to love her
is to learn her
and see her at her worst

dance with her when she's drinking
hold her when she hurts
she'll be happy you'll be sorry
well that's just how it works
to love her is to learn her
somethings your just can't learn

you'll meet her momma
you'll love her daddy
you'll know how much shes worth
you'll have thanksgiving dinners
and sunday morning church
you'll be true and you'll be tride
but the tables always turn
to love her is to learn her
somethings you just can't learn

its a lesson
its a blessing
you don't know everything
if you take her
you might hate her
and be left with just a ray
to love her
is to lose her
hey thats just how it works
to love her
is to learn her
somethings you just can't learn
oh to love her
is to learn her
somethings you just can't learn