If you hold something Tightly, you kill it And that's what flytraps do Whereas if you just allow It to settle on your hand And fly where it wants Like a bird or a butterfly It'll come back and settle And then it's free to fly So the hand needs to be an open hand Gentle open hand It's about being free but It's not about not being loving Actually But you will kill the love If you crush it You can't do that to people That's not love That's possession